PSERENDIPITY

I’m kind of with NG. I would probably be annoyed but as long as her hair is clean and they didnt cut it, I wouldn’t say nothing.

My brother’s little girl was at the family reunion with us almost all of last week. Her mama sent her with her hair braided and beaded. It was sooo cute. But she’s 3 and by the end of the week it was looking frizzly. So maybe that was the case for the 6 year old. After all it’s not like she wraps her hair at night. LOL!!!

I don’t have any kids, but I would take a deep breath and forget about it. Even though it is outside of your control as the mother, there is really no reason to get worked up over it. It’s just hair, and even if the new step mom/girlfriend had it all chopped off, it will grow back.

I think that moms try too hard to keep the step mom/new girlfriend on a leash, and to be honest with you there is really no reason for this in my eyes.

I think if you are letting your daughter go stay with her dad for two weeks, then you obviously trust him enough to make decisions on your behalf when it comes to taking care of the child. Including who the new step mom/girlfriend is, and what she is doing with the child.

I wouldn’t mind. I would just make sure they knew I didn’t want any chemical services or cutting of my daughters hair done while she was gone.

Well actually it depends. I might not like it, and say something because I don’t do beauty shops often and I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t be taking my kids and wouldn’t want anybody else taking them either.

I think he should’ve called and asked if it was okay for his girlfriend to a) take down your daughters hair and b) take her to the shop. Next time she goes w/her dad , you might just want to kindly say ” Hey , I did her hair , you dont have to worry about it . IF possible , I would like her hair to still look like this when you return her – so here is her scarf “

Be a little aggravated because he didn’t ask first (I’m a control freak), and then remember why we aren’t together anymore.